Perceptions....

Closure...

There needs to be a closure of the past to be able to move on to a new life.



A closure in relationships, a mental preparation to let go of the past, a definite conclusion needs to be drawn when one has decided on moving on. This is needed mainly because we live life in our mind. More often than not relationships evolve and when there is a major shift in a relationship with the same person it is important that we bring our past relationship to a closure in order to rejuvenate ourselves for the newer relationship (with the same person) with equal love and no angst.



It’s important that we do this, so that as years pass by, we don’t carry baggage of the past and have an open mind to embrace the future. It also helps us in feeling less fatigued from our past struggles. It provides a gush a freshness to each phase of life, we are then in a position to have jovial conversations with our own self and are also able to appreciate humour and objectivity in life.



We can live our past(glorious or otherwise) in the present state of mind, which is lighter, and learn from mistakes, at the same time savouring past life.



Now that I stand at turning the steering wheel of my life to unknown territory, I have started this process of closure in my mind, because a kite cannot fly with many strings attached but just one, which brings it back home to peace and rest when the flight is done and the life lived. Also the string is a small reminder of the fact from where we actually originated

posted by shikha @ 12:17 PM